Get Motivated
One of the biggest problems that people have with accomplishing their goals is finding the motivation to do so. This is something I’ve been struggling a lot with lately — maybe you have too. While it’s difficult to figure out what you ultimately want, the hardest step is definitely the first, because it requires a “boost” to get you started. Life can be pretty easy, and often people find that they don’t have to work very hard to get a pretty decent living. However, everyone has hopes and ambitions — the one thing that sets apart those who reach their dreams and those who don’t is motivation.
First, let’s start by defining the word “motivation”. According to Merriam-Webster’s Online Dictionary, a motive is “something (as a need or desire) that causes a person to act.” So to achieve motivation, you have to find a reason to reach your goal. Your reason can be one that almost everyone would agree with or even something that affects you personally; but whatever you choose, it needs to be something you feel strongly about. The stronger your reason, the stronger your motivation.
The biggest step of the ones I’m going to cover is the first: finding the reason to act. However, before I discuss that, I want to briefly touch on the steps to getting motivated.
The Steps
Once you’ve found your reason to do something, you have to actually go about acting. Depending on what you’re trying to accomplish, this step may be as simple as just…doing it. A lot of times, however, there are a few things (usually requiring work) that you have to do before you even get to the work of accomplishing your actual goal — we’ll call these pre-work endeavors.
Let’s use an example: say your goal is to play violin in a professional orchestra — how about the New York Philharmonic? — and you want to get motivated so you can reach your goal. First you’d pick your reason (let’s stay simple and just say that you love playing violin and performing as part of an orchestra). Now let’s dissect a way you could go about getting into the NY Philharmonic. The actual audition for a slot in the orchestra can be considered how to directly reach your goal, since that’s what ultimately determines whether or not you reach it. However, there are many pre-work endeavors, mainly the considerable amounts of violin practice (we’re talking years of hours every day), some experience playing in an orchestra, and a strong education from a reputable college (majoring in violin performance).
All of those things take a lot of work, and each can be dissected again in the same way, finding pre-work endeavors before the ultimate goal. So after you’ve decided what you want, found a reason behind it, and then found your pre-work endeavors, you have to apply the same steps to each of those endeavors. Pretty much anything can be dissected in this manner, and you’ll probably find that it’s easier to accomplish your goals if you take a step back and analyze everything.
Back to Finding A Reason
Now that you can kind of see how your reason affects the following steps, you might have a better idea of what I mean. I said earlier that your reason has to be something you feel strongly about — but what? How do you go about determining a reason to accomplish your goals? That’s a question that only you can answer. You have to explore yourself, find out what really makes you want something. Why do you get up in the morning? Why do you eat? Why do you use a PC instead of a Mac? Why do you prefer dogs over cats, pants over shorts, red over blue? There’s a reason for everything, and you can find out the reason you want something just by thinking — something you do every day and probably take for granted.
That’s not to say that you should sit there and give yourself a headache over it; maybe finding your reason will be really hard and take a lot of thought. I said there’s a reason for everything, but it doesn’t mean it’ll be easy to find it. 
But try looking at it from different perspectives, or break it up into pre-work endeavors and figure out your reason for wanting to accomplish those. Once you’ve done that, you can go back and try to figure out why you want to reach your ultimate goal.
Hopefully this will inspire some of you to really think about your goals and plans for the future and start taking the necessary steps to get motivated!
-Andrea
Tags: ambition, endeavor, get motivated, goal, motivation
Andrea, Informative, Life in General | Andrea August 25, 2009
